The Sweet Spot.

by You Can't Call It "It"! on April 30, 2009

sweet-spot

 

We’re all on the lookout for them. Names that somehow defy popularity, aren’t moving up in the charts, and haven’t been usurped by a celebrity. Names that have a nice balance between simplicity and complexity, sound modern but timeless, and are easy to say and spell. Names that aren’t trying too hard, but don’t bore you to tears. Names that even the grandparents can tolerate. For girls, we’d like them to be feminine but strong, for boys, masculine yet kind. Here’s a list of relatively off the radar names that come recommended by YCCII for 2009– all with great meanings to boot:

 

LADIES

Adele- Germanic, “noble” and underused. 

Aster- Greek, “star.” a flower, a form of Hebrew Esther with a modern sound; Pop culture: Rita’s daughter in “Dexter.”

Blythe- Old English, “cheerful.” Gwyneth Paltrow’s mother Blythe Danner is one famous bearer who began a litany of unusual names in their family.

Bronwen- Welsh, “fair breasted”, or pure of heart.  This gets a lot of attention on the name boards but remains unusual in the big picture.

Celeste- Latin origin, “heavenly.”  Queen Celeste reigns in the Babar books.  

Coralie- French, “coral.”  Somewhere between Cora and the newly famous Coraline, this one has potential to be a crowd pleaser.  

Frances- English from Francis, “Frenchman” or “free.”  Courtney Love broke with her own image when she and Kurt Cobain named their baby Frances Bean.

Iris- Greek goddess of the rainbow.  Jude Law and Judd Apatow both have one.  What fun for a young girl to have both a flower and a rainbow to celebrate her name.  

Louisa- “Prepared for battle”; appears in both Jane Austen’s Persuasion, and is the author of Little Women Louisa May Alcott.  All the beauty of Sophia and Olivia, without the searing popularity. 

Margot-French short form of Margaret, “pearl.”  Alluring woman in charge.

Mira- Triple threat: Slavic, “peace”, Sanskrit, “sea”, and Latin, “admirable”; Actress Mira Sorvino has faded from view so your daughter would have no trouble owning this name.  

Naomi- Hebrew, “pleasant”, Japanese “honest + beautiful.”  Cross cultural appeal far surmounts any quibble that may come from spelling this name backwards.  Don’t be silly.  If it does bother you, try Noemi.  

Petra- Greek, “rock.”  This will surprise people– pleasantly, I would think.

Phoebe- Greek, “bright, pure.”  Shakesperean, Biblical, and Mythological.  Cool.  

Susannah- Hebrew, “lily.”  Ladylike and lovely from childhood on.

Verity- From the Latin veritas, “truth.”  Appellation Mountain picked this as her alias for good reason.  

 

GENTS

Callum- Scottish, from Latin Columba for “dove.”  While people are discovering this, it’s still far from popular.  The nickname Cal just might help to sell Dad.

Conrad- German, “bold counsel.”  Time for Conrad to shed his geeky image.  Conrad is strong and commanding, and maybe even too cool for school.

Desmond- Irish, “from South Munster.”  One of many delectables brought to America’s attention on LOST.  I hope to have the pleasure of meeting a few.  

Edward- Old English, “rich guard.”  Will easily weather the storm that is Twilight.  A tried and true classic.  Try Ned, Ted, and Teddy before you stop at Ed.  

Everett- English, from the Germanic Everard, meaning “brave boar.”  Handsome choice that people seem to forget about.

Hugh- German, “intellect.”  A personal favorite.  Hugo is a top of the charts in France. 

Jonah- Hebrew, “dove.”  Are Callum and Jonah too incongruous to work for twins?  No, it’s not Jonas, but we like that too.  The brothers will be soon forgotten.  

Lachlan- Scottish nickname for a person from Norway, “land of lochs.”  Australia is gaga over Lachlan.  A sign it could make the journey here. 

Leo- Latin origin, “lion.”  Such an international choice.

Malcolm- Scottish, “disciple of St. Columba.”  It’s time to make way for new associations from Malcolm X and “Malcolm in the Middle.”

Philip- Greek origin, “horse lover.”  Try this name in full, with one L, and you’ve got a winner.

Raphael- Hebrew, “God has healed.”  Another name that works in so many languages.  Rafael is another bonafide spelling.

Reid- English, may mean “red-haired” or “forest clearing.”  This child could be preppy, a hippie baby, or just hip.

Seth- Hebrew, “appointed.”  Handsome and understated. 

Tobias- Hebrew, “God is good.”  Germans are liking Tobias these days and so am I.  

Wesley- English, “west meadow.”  Straddles Western cowboy and tea-sipping gentleman.  

 

Where does your sweet spot lie?



{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Lola April 30, 2009 at 2:44 pm

Mine lies with Frances & Rafael (the family spelling). Both are family names and I also like them very much. Susanna/h is one I want to like, my other middle is Susanne so it’d honor me a fair bit. But I just can’t seem to work up any enthusiasm for it.
Philip & Louisa are two that have been growing on me rapidly.

Great thinking, Elisabeth! :D

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2 Alicia April 30, 2009 at 4:12 pm

Always worries me to see the names that I love on these lists… Cuz then I worry they WILL be super popular before I know it. I love love love:

Adele and Verity for girls.

Callum, Rafael, Everett, Lachlan, and Tobias.

Sadly, DH isnt interested in any of the boy ones.. SO I suppose it doesn’t make a difference,.

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3 Kate April 30, 2009 at 7:31 pm

I am from Australia and I have to say that is so true about Lachlan. I know at least 8 Lachlan’s, most under 7.

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4 Bek April 30, 2009 at 10:03 pm

Have to agree with Alicia, it almost hurt to see so many loves on the list ;) But of course, I can’t help that your lists are always right on…

Favorites from each: Bronwen (sigh), Naomi, Petra; Everett, Reid, Wesley

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5 youcantcallitit April 30, 2009 at 11:50 pm

Aw, that’s awful Bek! It can be a double-edged sword, this name business. It’s the nature of blogging about it too. You want people to love your children’s names, just not to use them. I could see myself using several of the names here too, and they’re on my rotating short list.

Kate, that’s a helluva lot of Lachlans. Wow.

Alicia, it would be nice if you’d do the world a favor and have seven more children. That would be one well-named family. :-D

Lola, sorry to get to you last– I think Josephine and Frances would be adorable together!!! Philip also sounds great with the brothers.

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6 Sarah (nfate) May 1, 2009 at 6:47 am

Mr Anne Shirley, Gilbert Blythe, sells Blythe for me – such a loving friend and darling husband!
So Blythe is a top choice for a girl (I’m due in september).

I also have a soft spot for Edward, he *is* my 3 year old son after all.

Callum is also quite popular here in Aust,I know 3 or 4. Nothing compared to Lachlan though.

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7 Bek May 1, 2009 at 12:33 pm

It’s true, Elisabeth. The hopes to inspire great naming mixed with the dreams of keeping all the good ones to yourself ;) Luckily, I’m not too selfish, hehehe.

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8 Christina Fonseca May 1, 2009 at 11:28 pm

Oh Elisabeth, I am absolutely loving this list, especially the girl names! Adele, Coralie, and Phoebe are 3 that I frequently recommend.

Celeste always makes me think “sky blue”; Susannah sounds so feminine and I like its meaning; Iris combines a flower and a goddess in one. Along with Coralie I think of them as underused nature names.

I thought Bronwyn might appeal to the mother of a Br**lyn, somehow she chose Addison for her daughter instead. *scratches head*

I can easily see Louisa and Margot as sisters.

For boys Edward and Everett; Reid, Seth and Wesley all tickle my fancy.

Adele and Edward would make a lovely sibset.

Excellent post.

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9 Meg May 2, 2009 at 10:19 am

Awesome list QB. I have to agree with Alicia and Bek. It is definitely hard to see so many fabulous names that I would seriously use in the future.

But at the same time I find the whole list orgasmically mouth watering. ;0)

I can’t help but love- Blythe, Iris, Margot, Susannah, Verity, Edward, Seth and Wesley. They just put a spring in my step and set me to humming a merry tune.

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10 Kim May 3, 2009 at 9:50 pm

Oh Elisabeth, I swear I actually clapped when I saw Louisa on your list. She’s my current front-runner, despite the near constant negative reactions I get from people in real life. I do worry about her getting too popular, especially since we’re not pregnant yet, but c’est la vie, I suppose.

My other favorites are Frances, Susannah, Iris, and Naomi…and Callum, Malcolm, Leo, and Tobias.

Thanks for a terrific list!

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11 Haley May 15, 2009 at 10:46 pm

Well, ouch! I am a namesite lurker. I flirt with unusual/probably going to be too popular names, but always go back to my old favorites, secure in the belief that I have chosen names that no one is ever going to talk about TOO much. But here they are, my daughter Phoebe, my unborn daughter Margo, and my (assuming I have one) last daughter Susannah. All on one list. I’m not sure how to feel about this!

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