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What do Ann, Elizabeth, Marie, Grace, and Rose have in common? They’re all extremely popular in the middle name spot. Often termed “throw away”, these middles sound comfortable to American moms and dads– neatly tucked away and unobjectionable, they are unlikely to clash with the first and last name and don’t draw too much attention to themselves.
Here at YCCII, we’re big advocates of attributing meaning in the middle name spot. My own daughter has three middle names. While our choice was right for us, I realize most people would consider it over the top. For a more conventional scenario of one middle name, why not consider the following:
- Mother’s maiden name
- First or middle name of a relative or very dear friend
- A cognate or another version of the name of the person you wish to honor
- The birthstone or flower of the month the child was born in, or that of someone you’d like to honor
- For Catholics and others who may be interested, the child’s saint’s name day, or that of a relative
- A name from a country of origin you’d like to remember
- A place that has meaning to you, provided it makes a nice name (see Geography Names)




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More for girls: Bee, Bird, Blanche, Bliss, Claire/Clare, Claude, Dawn, Fawn, Fern, Fleur, Flore, Glad, Gwen/Gwenn/Gwenne/Gwyn/Gwynne, Glen/Glenn, Jill, Joie/Joy, Joyce, Lise, Love, Mare, Maure, Paule, Rae, and Star for girls.
For boys: Blair, Boyd, Brant, Bret/Brett, Bruce, Burke, Carl, Clay, Curt, Dale, Dane, Dean, Dirk, Duke, Earl, Guy, Floyd, Frank, Glen/Glenn, Jack*, Jay, Jed, Job, John, Jules, Karl, Deane/Keene, Keir, Keith, Kent, Kim, Kirk, Hale, Hans, Hew, Howel, Lang, Leal, Lee/Leigh, Lev, Lew, Lloyd, Lot, Lyle, Lynn, Marc/Mark, Miles, Powell, Rolf, Ralph, Roy, Scot/Scott, Serge, Seth, Seward, Sewell, Sol, Stewart/Stuart, Swain, Tait, Teague, Trent, Wade, Walt, Ware, York, Yves.
Some of these have a retro vibe for sure. I don’t love all these names but I like many of them. Note the * ! I’m sure you know why (of course it’s a wink to your post about Jack, Kate, etc.).
As you know Elisabeth, my chicks all have two each. It’s what works for us and while I advocate mutiple middles due to the growing population of the world, I’m not going to jump on anyone for not using even one (which makes me sad… so many names, why not use at least one extra for a middle?). The closest I got to “throwaway” status is Josephine’s Anne, which honors three different Aunts with similar names (Ann, Anne & Anna).
I have long been a proponent for “mixing it up a bit” and using Grandma Ann’s name as a first instead of the expected middle. Actually, while I’ve always loved Anne (for the Green Gables link), Simple Ann is starting to appeal again. Clean, trim & spare, Ann feels refreshing these days. Maybe I’m Annabella/Isabella’d out and that’s why. But that’s neither here nor there, I think.
Nora Burch (or is it Norah? I forget) over at namenerds has a survey up, with preliminary results: http://www.namenerds.com/uucn/midsurvey.html
Called “The Great Middle Name Survey, for girls or guys (she shows the results for both) has fairly expected results but is still interesting to peruse. 9203 respondents so far and only one of mine, both of my other half’s and one of my daughters chart at all. Nice to see. She also gives the general ages of the respondents, based on their middle names, so you can easily see the progression of “filler” or “throwaway” middles! She doesn’t have enough male respondents to do a similar graph for them. Won’t anyone send their brothers, spouses, cousins etc. over there for it? Consider it research on naming habits!
Alright now that I’ve babbled.. I’ll go be !quiet!
A few more.
Girls: Bai, Babe, Bjork, Bleu/Blue, Gay, France, Jade, Kat, Kit, Jan, Lis, Mai, Maj, Paige, Rain.
Boys: Alf, Arne, Beau, Bo, Bram, Bjorn, Cade, Cale, Clem, Cy, Claus, Dag, Dolf, Dune, Duff, Dwight, Elf, Fitz*, Freyr, Gage, Gus, Hal, Hank/Henk, Harp, Hart, Heinz, Hoyt, Ing, Jan, Josh, Kell, Kit, Klaus, Lane, Neal/Neil, Nels/Niels/Nils, Per, Red, Reed/Reid, Rolf, Rune, Sean, Shane, Ty, Tyr, Vlad, Wolf, Ulf.
* If Mac, then why not Fitz?
Mummie,
Ooh, Hoyt’s a good one! And Bram, Bjorn, Rolf, Nils… all gorgeous. Can’t believe I left off Fleur from the initial list, given I’ve considered it as a middle myself. I never meant for the post to be an exhaustive list as that would be impossible, but I do love so many of your suggestions and really appreciate them.
Not really feeling Boyd, Floyd, Stewart and Seward as one syllable names. Is there another pronunciation I am not getting?
Thanks so much for these great lists! Not a fan of some of the nickname names and some of the word names, but if a reader here is, then take it and run with it, please!
More here. Taking liberties!
Girls: Bea, Bay, Bess, Beth, Britt, Bryn/Brynn, Cal, Cat, Dee, Kim, Lil, Lin/Lyn/Lynn, Lou/Lu, Moon, Neve, Pes, Queen, Quin/Quinn, Raine, Reine, Rhea, Shay/Shea, Val, Tess.
Boys: Ace, Beck, Ben, Ber, Buck, Brad, Cab, Cal, Chad, Chance, Chase, Chaz/Chazz, Chet, Claes, Dak, Dell, Dov, Dude (it gets worse, I promise), Duane/Dwain/Dwayne, Dell, Ferd, Fred. Gide, Gil, Giles, Green, Guide, Haim, Hale, Ham, Id, Ja/Jah, Ka, Kurt, Kyle, Lach, Lex, Link, Loch, Luc, Luck, Lyle, Lin/Lyn/Lynn, Mars, Moe, Mork, Mose, Ned, Nick, Om, Paz, Puck, Ra, Rad, Rafe, Raj, Rav, Ray, Rhett, Roan, Sam, Seb, Sun, Taye, Teal, Edch, Teck, Thoth, Troy, Val, Van, Vance, Vaj, Wayne, Xan, Zane.
Adding for boys: Rand and Zak.
For boys: Dolph (I wrote Dolf), Garth, and Tzvi/Zvi (a good one, I think, thought not easy for many to pronounce).
How dare I omit Don, as in Joe Don Baker, and Ron, as in L. Ron Hubbard?
Someone might possibly kill me if I omit Craig. Please forgive me for monopolizing your blog!
I think I’ve hurt Jim Bob Walton’s feelings.
Please tell me to stop if you find all these little posts tiresome, but I keep thinking of new ones, especially for boys:
Prince, Count, King, Kong (well why not), and especially James. And I have no earthly idea what I meant by “Edch”. Off now to practice my typing.
But one more that just popped in my mind. Bam, as in Bam Margera.
I found it more common to see boys named with multiple middle names than girls. It’s a tradition in my family for the boys to receive three names, however I’m still working on convincing my husband it’s something we should continue. I’d love to do the same with girls but I might be pressing my luck.
I have to say I’m curious what multiple names you have chosen for your own children!
Adding KNOX and Joost, which is Dutch and pronounced “Yost”, to rhyme with post.
Thanks for the middle name survey link, Lola. I did participate.
Bellah, for now I remain mum on DD’s name, sorry! I will say that she has three given names, I have three, and my MIL has five. I will continue to give multiple names should I have any more children, though I must say it was a bit of a predicament at the passport office…
I was just reminded of Brooke Shields’ daughter’s name: Greer, as in Greer Garson. I just wanted to update the list.
Having read the splendid Times/Telegraph lists in “Across The Pond”, I had to add Bop (in honor of Master Guy Bop) to the list. I wonder how many little Bops will be bopping around in the future? Now I simply must pay homage to Iggy — so, Pop.
Here’s another one for a boy: Slade. As in Slade and Jo from “Date My Ex” and, before that, the California version of the Housewives show on Bravo. Of course I’m assuming that Slade is his given name. I’m also pretty positive that most of these names might not meet YCCII’s impeccable Standards of Naming!
In the interest of staying current with one-syllable names, I give you two more for the boys: Track and Trig.